It’s hard not to compare yourself with examples from the media, so it’s not surprising that many people hesitate if they have “good” sex. To throw out unnecessary opinions and comparisons is advised by psychotherapist Angie Gunn.
You may be used to sex on old worn sheets in an untidy room, but to improve your sex life, you need to improve the conditions. Allocate a little time, remove, light a candle, or at least refresh the air and adjust the light to your mood. This will demonstrate to your soulmate that you have made certain emotional "investments" in your sex life and will strengthen your understanding during sex, says certified sex coach Alicia Sinclair.